Words can never describe love
It is never a good thing when you start to feel like your worthless and not worth your partner time or energy anymore because you feel like he or she or they are cheating on you or just feel like you are not worth there breath because you been hide so much from them. It never easy and it won't get easy until we start to talk about what is truly bug us to others or our lovers because no matter what happens. End of the night or day.
Those people are ones who truly love us and have stayed with us through god knows whatever your partner has been through with you. NO matter what though. Just remember don't be afraid to open up and just ask for help from them. Even just look at them and say
"hon...We talk? I need to talk to you about what's going on with me"
If you can't even talk about it then just write it down and send it to them in text or hand written letter about it. Relationships are never easy and times they can be amazing or can be worst thing in your life. ONLY you know that for a fact.
If they can't make you feel loved or just even make you feel like you are important to yourself even just to them shows that they don't care anymore. They are only after what they want. Which isn't something you need at all.
YOU need to find that light yourself to help you find what you want inside the relationship. A relationship should a one road where you both can walk down it and always be there for one another. not a one sided road where the other is yank you back and show you so much brutal pain and no love at all!
That what you call abusive relationship! You need to focus on what you know is right! WHAT you want inside the relationship! That just not good and you need to escape it. Family does matter yes. THIS person you are marrying into one day or something else.
This person you have to make sure is person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Your significant other should always be that person you can look to and say "mine" that person just say it back with no issue at all.
Love isn't easy and won't be easy at all. There is so many out there who are struggle to find the perfect one and some who are just fall in love to easily. But ones who know they are in the right relationship. Been through hell to be with them. Still end of the night can fall asleep and not worry about there partner.
That a sign of pure trust, pure love, pure everything. You will know one day. It may not seem fast at first but it will show it sign of your in the right relationship when you hit your lowest point in your life. That person just looks at you and grips your hand and sits with you until your ready to stand back up and keep going.
Take trips or just stupid little outings is even better when you know that person well and they enjoy stuff you enjoy because if that person can just surprise you with silliest things you love. Knowing your gonna enjoy it then shows they do care about you.
Please just remember to always talk to your partner about everything and if you feel like your unsure if they doing something your afraid of. Please just ask them if it ok to check there phones or whatever it is there using and make sure it ok to share passwords for phones. Having trust is a major thing inside each relationship because without trust or know that your partner is someone you love deeply and want to feel safe with. Is best feeling in the world.
I am always around if you guys need to talk. my email is always at bottom of each blog because I ain't afraid to reach out and help you guys. I have helped many couples with there relationships and help people break up with their partners because they don't feel safe with them anymore and so much more. Love yourself folks, love your family that YOU make of it. Always remember that there is a silver lining at each passing you just need get through it first.
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